Sometimes the healthiest, most positive route is to show the person causing the harm EXACTLY what they are doing by giving them a taste of it. Hitting rock bottom is often the only way we learn. This not-so-sweet smelling oil brings together some of the most baneful substances in hoodoo including pepper, snake skin, valerian root, wormwood, Spanish moss, and sulfur. It is intended to cross, curse, hex, jinx and destroy enemies who have hurt you or others you care about. A wonderful oil to separate someone from an abuser and a great first step to get the ball rolling on a divorce. I use it myself primarily for this circumstance-just be very careful when children are involved-the spirits don't like you breaking up the home of a child unless it is for the best. This oil can also be used when summoning the spirits of the dead or for other dark works of magic such as working with "dark" goddesses like Hecate, Persephone, Kali, Cerridwen, etc. Bless!